Anonymous asked: Hey kristen! Need advise! I was with this guy for three years and we have been apart for 5 months now, we have still been seeing each other and not long ago I found out he's seeing someone else. I see him again less than a week ago and ended up sleeping with him. I actually thought we were sorting things out. Now I've found out he's gone on holiday and taken this new girl with him! Funny thing is all the time we were together he never once asked me to go on holiday with him. Xx

Answer:

I would drop him… no matter how attached you are. Someone who respects you and wants a future with YOU, wont do that. If he were just confused, he should LET YOU KNOW that and give you a choice to stick around or not. I don’t know him, or you… but I would never never be someone’s option like that nor put up with being disrespected like that. If I were you, I’d ignore him from now on, and if he really really tries, I’d say something like “look, you obviously are interested in someone right now… and that is fine. However I wont sit around and be disrespected while you have both of us, and/or make up your mind. I’m busy and I’ve got a life to live and a million things to do, so be in it, or don’t.”

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